2021.09.26 05:51 sukii93 I'm changing my first and middle names... should I change my last name too?
For background, let me just say that I've always thought my last name (Torre) was a bit strange. I never thought it was the worst name in the world, but I never particularly liked it either. I occasionally get people who mistake it for Torres, which is a more common last name, and while it hasn't caused me any major issues before, it is a pain to have to correct them when they do get it wrong.
For many years, I have fantasized about one day getting to change my last name "when I get married." Now I'm 28, single, and don't really care about dating. Changing my name is just a part of my journey discovering who I am and learning to love myself. I have battled depression and suicidal thoughts, many identity crises, and things are finally getting better for me. I'm really proud of who I've become and can't wait to reintroduce myself to the world with an identity that better suits me.
The only problem is I can't decide if I want to keep my last name or not. My mom wants me to keep it and wait to change it when I get married, but I told her that I don't know if that's ever going to happen, and even if I get married, I don't have to change my name if I don't feel like it (especially if my partner has a last name I don't particularly care for). I also told her that if they're expecting me to change my name someday anyway, what's the big deal if I change it now? I will still be part of the family and our relationship won't change. She agreed with that logic.
My problem is that it's so hard to find one that I feel really "fits" me. I'm afraid that if I don't change it, I'll always regret wasting this opportunity as changing my name again down the line would be a burden. But what if I change my entire name and feel like a stranger? If I'm already changing my first and middle name, should I keep my last name to have something familiar to fall back on? I know that a new name doesn't change much, but I'm still afraid that I won't feel like myself anymore, but rather some sort of impostor. I think I'm also slightly afraid of my extended family thinking poorly of me if I decide to change my name completely, as if I'm trying to distance myself from them or something. I know I shouldn't care what others think, it's my name after all, but I can't help it.
Anyone have any experiences with this? Any advice?
TLDR: I'm changing my first and middle name legally and can't decide whether I should change my last name too. I never loved my last name and always wanted to change it, but I'm afraid of letting go of that familiarity and not feeling like myself anymore. I'm also worried about my family's reaction should I decide to change my last name too. Any advice?
submitted by sukii93 to namenerds [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 MaloneCack69 Today My 1st b-day (21st) since my lil bro passed , boutta get some henny and vibe . I Need some songs to get me in my feelings …any suggestions?
2021.09.26 05:51 Regular_Cry_7978 ⛑ HappyCoinFloki (HCF/BNB) just launched strong project!
Happy Coin Floki
5 minutes ago FAİRLAUNCH
TOKEN HappyCoinFloki is funded solely through its own cryptocurrency, a BEP20 token leveraging a smart contract on the Binance Block Chain network.
⛑ DOXXED FOUNDERS
⛑ ANTI WHALE MECHANICS
⛑ ANTI BOT PROTOCOL
⛑ LIVE AMA
💥 Pancake Swap : https://exchange.pancakeswap.finance/#/swap?outputCurrency=0xa3bf3b170afc414e95ea162978e4ee2442d5da14
🔑 Deeplock: Lock 45 days
💥 We set out below some key points for you to consider choosing us:
- No Pre Sale, No Air Drop, Just Stealth Launch
- Total Supply: 10.000.000
- No dev wallet (Dev will also buy at start)
- Ownership Renounced
- Liquidity Locked 100%
- No dev wallet (Admins will also buy after launch and keep feeding the liquidity if it is necessary)
⛑ We are sick of it aswell it, so we have created our own token and dedicated it to all those that have been scammed so get in early and don’t miss out!
We will make sure this token is safe and a good investment for all, with great rewards to our early holders...
submitted by Regular_Cry_7978 to SatoshiBets [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 pridesysit Easy Sale Best POS Software in Bangladesh Pride POS Pridesys
2021.09.26 05:51 kennychen2009 If you can only buy one, Which do you prefer? F16 or F22?
2021.09.26 05:51 bnasty710 Buttons stopped working.
I’ve had the backbone for a few months. today I was playing warhammer on steamlink just about all day. Last time I pick it up to play the left dpad wasn’t working. Went into app and did a button and come to find out Along with the left dpad the L2,capture and select buttons also don’t work. I don’t know what to do now
submitted by bnasty710 to Backbone [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 Smakx GBC ESP32 Retro Go Dev Preview 2 | Tech Toy Tinker Company
2021.09.26 05:51 3DBass The Brothers Zbrojovka
|submitted by 3DBass to CZFirearms [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 IllCriticism3614 💩 Mini Poop 💩 - Stealth Launched - Low MCAP - x1000 incoming - Doxxed dev - Clean chat - Bullish chart - Real poop
Stealth Launched: Cuz it stinks 🤢
💩 Mini Poop 💩 Is your life shit? well, at least hold some shares of it 🙆♀️
Website : minipoop.io
📈Low, Low Mcap of 25 K at the moment of writing this post! Going parabolic straight to 1-5 MLN MCAP! (have you seen the toy fly? it's us!)
💯Legitimate and genuine meme token! Plans to do a mini poop swap♻️ and mini poop wallet💰 in the future!
Extremely experienced dev makes the chart look more than bullish!
(imagine bull being boosted by poop he throws from the back :) )
Not renounced ownership for one reason: to keep the chart healthy, rewards are not credited to make sure we don't go down!
Fully doxxed dev from Poland to make sure your funds are SAFU!
🔥Manual burns to make sure that circulating supply decreases.?
🤖Non-botted chat, we never use any fake influencers to make sure that chat contains only real people!🙅♂️
Unruggable and SAFU 💯 If you don't believe it, whatever, man, it's just poop.
💧 10% Auto LP (increased to generate more LP)(also you can use that liquid to wash your hands 🤲)
📈 5% PooCoin Reward (poocoin pls promote us) (disabled until volume)
🏦 5% Marketing wallet (cuz you want us to promote the coin, I believe)
🔥 manual burn (does poop catch on fire? let's see)
👥 Team: SAFU 💯so don't talk shit.
➡️ Pancakeswap : https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0x6fa69eade722f9f677ce917cb3cda7eb20e1f3d5
➡️ Renounced Ownership: https://bscscan.com/token/0x6fa69eade722f9f677ce917cb3cda7eb20e1f3d5#readContract
submitted by IllCriticism3614 to CryptocurrencyICO [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 suzaman This show gets a lot of hate from other subs here on reddit and other sites. Why do you think the show gets so much hate?
2021.09.26 05:51 prawnbiryani 💗☁🍦🌸🧁🤍🦩
|submitted by prawnbiryani to 11hr11min [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 Bumbold Hehe
|submitted by Bumbold to ClownPierce [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 olivialcc Trading Valentine's Halo 2020 for 2 of these halos and diamonds
option 1 - corrupt, hal18, winter18, and diamonds
option 2 - corrupt, hal18, mer21, and diamonds
option 3 corrupt, winter18, mer2020, and diamonds
submitted by olivialcc to RoyaleHighTrading [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 Infamous_Implement_8 20 [M4A] Any sissys up?
2021.09.26 05:51 ninchilladda how do I get the small bloons achievement?
to my knowledge, in order to unlock this achievement, you need to have a bloon master alchemist have 1,000,000 pops before round 100. I tried following youtube videos that show me how to do it and when my alchemist got to 1 mil pops nothing happened. my friend tried it too got the 1 million pops and nothing again. Is it possible that the achievement has changed or something?
p.s I have tried beating it on a map I haven't beaten before and still don't have the achievement
submitted by ninchilladda to btd6 [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 Survalist Is it normal for sertraline to cause pupil dilation?
Since I started taking 50mg of sertraline two days ago my pupils have been massive! Is this normal? should I stop taking and let my doc know? I was on the same dose about a year ago and it didn’t cause my pupils to dilate then.
submitted by Survalist to medical_advice [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 mallgoths Neighborhood watch… I knew the hammock was a bad idea because they sleep on the job now
|submitted by mallgoths to Catswithjobs [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 Firnin Iowa is a battlecruiser, fuck you fight me
from a design standpoint:
Iowa literally started as a cruiser RFP
Iowa is the fastest surface combatant ever put to sea
Iowa is not armored against the 16"/50 with either AP or superheavy AP shell, and does not have a good immunity zone against the 16"/45 either, especially considering how charitable the assumptions of the USN calculations for IZ profiles were at the time of her design.
from a usage standpoint:
Iowa was designed to operate independently from the main battleline as either independent units to counter japanese fast surface heavies such as the kongo class, or to operate as the fast wing of the battleline, both of which being doctrinally battlecruiser roles
The only reason why they were not designated as such, and indeed the only reason why the "fast battleship" designation even exists, is because after Jutland congress would never fund a battlecruiser because in the public and unknowledgeable perception, battlecruiser = exploding deathtrap, rather than placing the blame on britain being bad at ammo handling and ship design
Battlecruisers never got a formal definition, but if any ship deserves the name, it's the Iowas, and that's not an insult. People get insulted by this statement, but that's because they feel affronted that their glorious iowas would be called (gasp) battlecruisers, because they don't know what they are talking about
submitted by Firnin to NonCredibleDefense [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 DSJ13 Is it still a bad lease?
2021.09.26 05:51 kenji_2322 [HOW TO] Set wallpaper from wallhaven.cc
is there a way to grab wallpapers from wallhaven on certain types like top,tags,quality,orientation.
If someone has similar profile can you please share.
Or can you tell me steps that i will need to do to make this work.
I don't know much, nuub here . So i will learn about all the steps mentioned then try to make this.
submitted by kenji_2322 to tasker [link] [comments]
2021.09.26 05:51 dinnerlover lets rename this sub to OldPeoplePics since Boomers and 65+ People use reddit now.
2021.09.26 05:51 UnderstandingNew976 i love massaging my pretty feet - maybe if you prove yourself worthy i’ll let you do it for me >:)
|submitted by UnderstandingNew976 to Femdomfeet [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 SuperMageFromOW Probably just me having a shitty day but lord. The matchmaker is so bad, give me good teammates please.
|submitted by SuperMageFromOW to destiny2 [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 fairlywittyusername Rice Lake in Ontario at sunset. It was just after a storm!
|submitted by fairlywittyusername to WeatherPorn [link] [comments]|
2021.09.26 05:51 damortiz What are some scary movies you regret watching?